Someone recently asked me what my greatest leadership challenges were as a pastor. It took me less than five minutes because they were so familiar to me. I wrote them in the order you see them now, which is not necessarily a reflection of their level of difficulty.
These challenges are not unique to me or any pastor, but sometimes it helps to know you are not alone. You will likely find some of these are no challenge at all to you, which simply means we have different strengths and weaknesses.
Me
I believe that the health of a church is intrinsically connected to the health of its pastors. I look back over almost three decades to see that when I was growing, so was my church. The opposite is also true. Any conversation about church revitalization must begin with pastoral revitalization.
Time Management
Last week I experienced the euphoria of a “zero inbox.” I first heard about this Hope Diamond of efficiency when I started serving pastors at LifeWay two years ago. What took me two years to achieve disappeared only moments later when another stinking email showed up! I seem to never get ahead; regardless of the latest IT tools I acquire to assist me.
I have learned to schedule my priorities, but I have also learned that heaven often laughs at our plans. Efficiency and flexibility are a dual threat against the ever stressful schedules we keep.
Ministry Focus
So how do you schedule your priorities if you are not sure what they are? The simple vision of my last church was boiled down to three priorities: Worship, Grow & Go. This vision helped me to determine what my ministry priorities were, as well as my relationship priorities. Worship helped me focus on Jesus; Grow focused on discipling believers; and Go sharpened my focus on reaching unbelievers. The best instructions are biblical, simple, personal and replicable.
Vision Drift
Knowing the focus of my vision was not as hard as implementing it. Vision never sticks for long because there are so many disruptions and distractions that pine for our attention. I found that my vision was most vulnerable in the summer; perhaps because I was usually exhausted after the end of a church year. If I didn’t intentionally set aside time with the Lord and my staff to ramp up for the fall, I struggled with vision drift once the new church year started.
Handling Disappointment
I try to help young pastors to brace up for their first ministry storm by normalizing it. I remind them that they will be expected to preach the Word in season and out of season, just like Timothy did. I was the typical unsuspecting pastor who found out the hard way how mean church members could be. I also found out that they have been strategically planted in every church so that pastors won’t be tempted to waste their time searching for that perfect one. Love the sheep and the goats and it won’t escape the notice of your Boss.
Pastoral Care
Some of you are natural at this. I hate you.
Actually, I just envy you, which is hopefully less of a sin. All kidding aside, my leadership skills exceed my pastoral skills, which is often the case for lead pastors. My churches needed to be loved before they were led, so I stopped using my gift mix as an excuse to neglect the people God called me to pastor.
I have more challenges on my list, but I assume you too are short on time and focus. Also, I would be interested to hear what your primary leadership challenges are.
Your last paragraph re pastoral care gave me a much-needed laugh this morning. And, I identify totally with your comments. This was a timely read for me in what has been a season of re-examination of where both my church, and I, am headed. Thank you.
Thanks Al. I like the idea of making a pastor laugh. Your feedback is much appreciated
I agree with you on a number of issues. Especially the first one. When the pastor is growing the Church also grows. When i just started ministry i had the passion to read and pray very much. After serving for 10 years my passion for ministry is not the same. I feel i really need some help. I have totally lost interest in what am doing and i need God’s help in this matter please. Am serving God in Africa
Thank you for this posting
I appreciate your transparency Steven. There is an oxygen mask in my home office to remind me to take care of myself before I try to take care of others. One of the ways I practice this is to surround myself with a few people who pour into me. That maybe harder in Africa. People usually won’t help a minister unless he/she asks them to.
Mark,
I appreciate your post.
I remember hearing Ken Sande, author of The Peacemaker, say over half of the marriage mediations he has participated in have ended in restoration. That is great news, but it also means the Navy Seal of conflict management is batting .500!
Not sure where that leaves most local pastors, but I believe I saw Lifeway report that the vast majority of pastors find relational dynamics difficult, perhaps upwards of 70%. With little training in pastoral care and few financial resources to hire additional staff, the church has both the difficulty and the opportunity of waiting on the Lord to provide.
In sum, most pastors are weak in pastoral care, we are not alone in the struggle.
I started a ministry for the purpose of coming alongside the church to extend the grace and truth of the gospel to those who are in difficult seasons. There is help out there if we are willing to admit we need it.
For me personally, my challenge is self-care. I often neglect my body for the sake of ministry. I wish I could say my neglect was a sacrifice, but honestly, it is more closely tied to idolatry.
Helpful article. Your comment on Pastoral Care made me laugh out loud! Every single point echoes my greatest concerns for my health and the health of the church as well. Thank you.
So glad you enjoyed it Tommy
Thanks for this good feedback Jeff.
Perhaps we should look at self-care as an extension of pastoral-care. We are expected to manage our family and ourselves before we manage God’s family – so we need to see self-care as more of a commission.
Mark, are you suggesting we should pastor ourselves in the same manner as we intend to pastor others? That sounds absurd! 🙂
i really appreciate the Godly help you give to us
Thank you!
I need to take care of my health
We all do Jonathan. I worked out with another pastor this morning, and we both left encouraged.